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‘It’s win-win for all’

There was a moment during Mike “Mickey Magic” Gomez’s Feb. 17 presentation to students at the Washington Elementary School that would’ve sent any Big Tobacco spokesperson running.
The Union City-based magician motioned to his box of “Newfarts,” labeled with “Danger” and “Menfoul Cigarettes.”
“This [Newport] is the number one cigarette that’s smoked in urban areas,” Gomez said.
Gomez, who just signed a contract with the Union City Board of Education for shows at local schools, finds ways to help students make the “best life choices” – in between his actual magic tricks, of course.
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“I know your teachers talk about veggies and fruits; I talk about water – H20, God’s champagne.” – Mickey Magic
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“I always tell my children, and everybody that I talk to, you must eat well,” Magic told the kids. “You must eat well, because if all you eat is junk, what happens? Your body turns into junk.”
Appropriately, a nutrition chart was in the background.
“I know your teachers talk about veggies and fruits; I talk about water – H20, God’s Champagne.”
It was a clever segue to his next trick.
After he discussed a bodega visit in which he asked for some of “God’s Champagne,” but instead got a Coca-Cola bottle, he pulled that bottle from a brown paper bag.
“One, two, three,” he began, while waving his fingers over the bag. “Say, ‘Make it disappear.’”
The kids repeated. Seconds later, he turned over the bag. Nothing fell out.
“It’s gone,” Gomez said.
“Wait a minute!” he reassured. “I can make it reappear. One, two, three,” and he pulled out the bottle again. But immediately again, he made the bottle disappear.
Then he pulled out a wine glass with water inside.

Career decision

“I made a decision years ago that if I’m going to entertain, and I have this large audience, from children to adults, I might as well do something useful,” Gomez said after the show. “I have their ears and their eyes. Why not take them and enlighten them?”
“I’m never indifferent,” he added. “When I’m walking down the street, and a kid comes up to me, I swear to God, this happened yesterday: I’m at a supermarket. And then I stopped and went to the Rite-Aid. And always some child, they’re looking at me strange, because I have this hat on and I take my hat off and I have on regular clothes, and he said, ‘Aren’t you Mickey Magic?’ It’s always very flattering.”
Gomez first got into magic growing up in the Bronx. “I got the bug then,” he said. “So I was experimenting, going to magic clubs and magic shops. And then, one day in my 30s I got sick and tired of being sick and tired and I decided, ‘I’m going to make this a living.’” He eventually began a company, “Family Night Entertainment.”
Gomez performs at family nights at local restaurants, and works with other performers who he sends to client restaurants, many of them McDonald’s locations in New York City, with one in Jersey City.
“I assign these performers, and they do balloon animals,” he explained. “They do magic. Of course, face painting. And then the restaurants give a discount to the revelers that come in.”
Gomez acknowledges the slight contradiction in promoting healthy eating with his shows, but having events at the Golden Arches. “McDonald’s is giving you a choice today,” he said. “They went from those big old French fries; they got these little, tiny French fries in the Happy Meals. And now they include a fruit. They’re making a change.”
Gomez works as a magician full-time, something he said is rare. “Ninety-eight percent of the people in this business are not full-timers,” he said.
His career has been of great help through trying times. “[During] my first marriage, my two children died,” he admitted. “The first one, he had issues when he was born; he only lasted a few months; he was an infant. My oldest, Sebastian, died in a tragic auto accident. Then my first wife right after that. People say she died of a brain aneurysm; I say she died of a broken heart. Can’t have your two children dying, and not be the same person.”
But things eventually looked up. He remarried and had two boys. The marriage didn’t last and he has been raising the boys himself.
He said he likes to perform in the inner city. “I’m from the inner city. It’s not that I don’t like doing affluent, upscale communities. But they have all the resources on the planet.”

Likes Union City

Gomez said he works well with Union City Mayor Brian Stack. “I remember when he was walking down the streets years ago, before he ran for mayor. His ambition and everything, he knocks on my door. He impressed the living daylights out of me.”
During a big fire a few years ago in a tenement building, Gomez called the city and offered a free show for the affected children. He made contacts who booked him for Earth Day events at the Eugenio Maria de Hostos Center for Early Childhood in Jersey City.
“What the mayor is attempting to do is just empower the children of Union City,” Gomez said. “There have been some studies that have been done. The culmination of these studies was that when you combine magic with education, there’s a much larger retention experience than just lectures. If magic is presented with message, it’s win-win for all.”
Hannington Dia can be reached at hd@hudsonreporter.com

Jersey City Briefs

Three juveniles charged in JC murder

Three juveniles from Jersey City were recently arrested without incident by members of the Hudson County Prosecutor’s Office Homicide Unit and charged in connection with the Dec. 26 murder of Judane Holmes, 16, of Jersey City, said Hudson County Prosecutor Esther Suarez.

On Friday, Jan. 4, a 14-year-old male was arrested in the area of Virginia Avenue in Jersey City, and a 15-year old was arrested near Sawmill Road in Alloway Township, NJ. Both were charged as accomplices to murder and with various weapons violations.

On Monday, Jan. 7, a 16-year-old male was arrested at the prosecutor’s office located at 595 Newark Avenue in Jersey City. He has been charged with murder as well as weapons violations.

NJDOT announces Winter Weather Congestion Alert communications campaign

New Jersey Department of Transportation (NJDOT) Commissioner Diane Gutierrez-Scaccetti has announced a new communications campaign to help the public make better traveling decisions during winter weather events to improve safety and the department’s ability to clear snow.

New Jersey is the most congested state in the nation; a relatively routine winter weather system can wreak havoc in New Jersey when it occurs between 5 a.m. and 7 p.m., Monday through Friday.

“In order for NJDOT to clear highways of snow and ice, we need roads free from traffic so our trucks can get through and do their job,” Gutierrez-Scaccetti said. “Our Winter Weather Congestion Alert plan is designed to alert the media and public when forecasted weather may cause congestion, and provide tips on what to do so our crews can get through to keep the roads clear, open, and safe.”

The alerts may provide general tips, such as to consider telecommuting if possible, or more specific recommendations to avoid certain highways with inclines that are often problematic during a storm, such as I-280 or parts of I-78 in western New Jersey. The media and public will be alerted through press releases, the NJDOT Facebook page, Twitter @NJDOT_info, VMS boards, and www.511nj.org.

NJDOT will encourage people to telecommute, travel before the winter weather starts, and stay put while the winter weather is occurring. Wait a few hours for the storm to subside before heading out. If you are traveling during the winter weather, pull off somewhere safe and wait it out. Always stay clear of plowing and spreading trucks. If they are behind you, let them pass. Do not pass between trucks that are in a plow formation.

NJDOT will be using Variable Message Signs to alert motorists of the campaign. Motorists are encouraged to check NJDOT’s traffic information website www.511nj.org for real-time travel information.

Flu at high levels in New Jersey

According to the state Health Department, New Jersey is currently one of only 15 states already reporting high levels of the flu virus this year. State officials have confirmed the first pediatric fatality associated with the flu in New Jersey this season.

It is not too late to get a flu shot.

To avoid spreading the virus to others, medical professionals advise staying home while you are sick and up to at least 24 hours after your fever is gone; not visiting people in the hospital; covering your nose and mouth with a tissue when coughing or sneezing; if you do not have a tissue, cough into your elbow or shoulder; avoiding touching your nose, eyes and mouth; and washing your hands often, especially after coughing or sneezing.

If your child is sick, do not send your child to school or after school programs until at least 24 hours after fever and symptoms are gone.

County gets $40K grant for aging services

The Board of Freeholders has approved the County of Hudson to apply and accept $40,000 in grant funds from the New Jersey Division of Aging Services Funds to provide various programs and services to seniors or residents who are disabled in Hudson County.

The purpose of the program is to provide services that include medical care, essential support services, and social services programs to senior citizens or low income residents who have disabilities in Hudson County.

The program is from Oct. 1, 2018 through Sept. 29, 2019.

Menendez’s trafficking victims protection signed into law

President Donald Trump signed into law this week legislation sponsored by U.S. Sen.Robert Menendez, ranking member of the Senate Foreign Relations Committee.

The legislation Menendez coauthored will strengthen U.S. global leadership in the fight to end human trafficking.

The Trafficking Victims Protection Reauthorization Act of 2017 (TVPRA), which amends and reauthorizes international provisions of the Trafficking Victims Protect Act, will require the State Department to evaluate concrete actions foreign governments are taking to abolish trafficking and ensure that foreign governments do not get passing grades in the annual Trafficking in Persons (TIP) Report based on trade or other unrelated factors.

“I am thrilled to see this commonsense legislation signed into law to strengthen our international efforts to fight human trafficking,” Menendez said. “Senator [Bob] Corker and I authored this bipartisan legislation because we believe it was necessary for the United States to remain a strong, credible leader in the global fight to end human trafficking.”

Coats for our neighbors

ShopRite has partnered with VICKS for the Coats for Our Neighbors drive, which will run through Saturday, Jan. 26 at select ShopRite stores. Visitors can drop off new and gently used coats to participating ShopRite stores, and all coats collected during the coat drive, along with $10,000, will be donated to One Warm Coat®, a national non-profit that works to provide free, warm coats to people in need. ShopRite of Metro Plaza in Jersey City is scheduled for Friday, Jan. 18 from 10:30 a.m. to 1 p.m. ShopRite of Bayonne is scheduled for Friday, Jan. 18 from 3:30 to 6 p.m.

 

Bayonne Briefs

Frank Perrucci remembered as beloved citizen

When Frank Perrucci passed away on Dec. 27, Bayonne lost a man who cared deeply about his community and his country. Mayor James Davis spoke for us all when he wrote:

“It is with a heavy heart that I announce the passing of a Bayonne Legend…Frank Perrucci.  If there was one man that epitomized the Bayonne spirit, it was Frank. No parade or ceremony was complete without Frank. A leader of veterans groups and civic organizations, his smile and warmth was always sought out. Frank Perrucci exuded pride; Pride for his family, pride for his service, and pride for Bayonne. Frank served his nation in World War Two with both the Merchant Marines and the U.S. Army. After the war, Frank spent his life in service to this community. For the last few years, I have been lucky enough to enjoy monthly lunches with Frank because I truly enjoyed his company and friendship.

“Our city has lost another icon, but we are stronger because he was here! To Jean and the entire Perrucci family, please accept my deepest condolences on behalf of our entire city. Rest In Peace Frank; you will be greatly missed!”

Correction

In 2018, former Bayonne Police Chief Jim Sisk died at the age of 79. In our Year in Review issue, we incorrectly reported that it was Drew Sisk who had died. We sincerely regret the error and apologize for the confusion and stress this has caused the family and friends of Drew Sisk.

Priest rescued after heart attack causes crash

A local priest crashed his car into two parked cars on 29th Street and Avenue E due to a medical emergency, according to Edoardo Ferrante, Bayonne Office of Emergency Management Coordinator. The priest, Monsignor Francis Seymour, was rescued by first responders and transported to nearby Bayonne Medical Center on Saturday, Dec. 22.

First responders treated him with a defibrillator and transported him to Bayonne Medical Center.

Bayonne organizations receive legacy grant awards for 2018

Community Health Connections Foundation, Inc. (CHCF), founded in 2016, and the former Bayonne Visiting Nurse Association (BVNA), announced the distribution of grant money to four Legacy Foundation award winners for 2018. The Bayonne Economic Opportunity Foundation, Community Day Nursery, Madeline Fiadini LoRe Foundation and the Jersey City-based Hudson Hospice.

Community Health Connections Foundation supports programs designed to make communities in New Jersey healthy and supportive places to live. The foundation works to make ongoing progress in key areas while addressing access to care and connecting people in the community to proper nutrition, health education, maintenance, disease prevention for all ages, and patient and family support during acute and chronic physical and mental illness through end of life.

The Bayonne Visiting Nurse Association, Inc. (BVNA), founded in 1921, reorganized in 2016 to become a private grantmaking foundation.

Firefighters rescue dog from Newark Bay

Bayonne firefighters rescued a dog from Newark Bay on Sunday, Dec. 23, after receiving a call from John Donofrio lost the dog in the bay, according to the Bayonne Office of Emergency Management (BOEM).

Donofrio, who was visiting from Virginia, was walking a dog named Bella when the dog inexplicably dove over a bulkhead wall and down 12 feet into Newark Bay.

Bayonne firefighters Jeff Spengler and Pat McGrath lowered a ladder for Captain Scott McGimpsey to climb down and rescue “a very scared and cold Bella,” according to the BOEM.

Mighty microscopic marvels featured at LSC

They’re microscopic, mighty, and play a key role in life all over our planet, but microbes get a bad rap because some of them cause disease. In reality, the overwhelming majority are beneficial to us and essential to our survival. Liberty Science Center’s newest permanent interactive exhibit, Microbes Rule!, illuminates just how good microbes are.

Visitors will find themselves in a new state-of-the-art exhibit that uses an array of interactive stops to highlight exactly how these tiny organisms shape the world, protect us from pathogens, boost the immune system, help us detoxify, assist in digestion, and keep babies healthy.

“Microbes do important and essential work everywhere, from the deepest seas to the hottest deserts to inside our very own bodies,” said Paul Hoffman, LSC president and CEO. “They shape the world around us and keep us healthy. These mighty microbes deserve to be in the spotlight.”

LSC is supporting an initiative to make Streptomyces griseus the official state microbe of New Jersey. To sign LSC’s change.org petition to help support the state’s vote and celebrate New Jersey as a pioneer in scientific and medical innovation, visit https://www.change.org/p/vote-for-the-official-state-microbe.

N.J. joins multi-state anti-drilling lawsuit

State Attorney General Gurbir Grewal announced that the state has joined a multi-state lawsuit in an attempt to prevent offshore drilling. Grewal and the deputy director of the Department of Environmental Protection also seek to reverse the Trump administration’s decision in November to allow seismic testing for oil and natural gas reserves.

“Evidence shows the negative impact that seismic testing can have on marine mammals,” Deputy Environmental Protection Commissioner Debbie Mans told NJTV News.”We are an important migration corridor for federally endangered marine mammals and turtles. The impact of seismic air guns on whales and dolphins include behavioral changes like decreased feeding, avoidance of noise, stress and possible stranding.”

Mans and Grewal hope the seismic testing approval is reversed. Florida was exempted from offshore drilling earlier in 2018, while N.J.’s request was denied.

Measles outbreak in Ocean County climbs to 21 cases

There are now 21 confirmed cases of measles in Ocean County, and 10 more are under investigation, according to the NJ Department of Health. Three more confirmed cases are in Passaic County. The outbreak began on October 21, as a result of travel to Israel. According to the Jerusalem Post, a measles outbreak has affected more than 2,600 people and led to two deaths.

Key questions remain about NJ Transit funding

Though many politicians praised the NJ Transit reform bill signed by Gov. Phil Murphy in Summit on Dec. 20, crucial details remain up in the air, especially about the agency’s funding. Last year, Murphy pledged to launch a new source of revenue for NJ Transit. At the bill’s signing, Murphy said he would be “loath to make the commuter bear the burden.” He added that “it’s too early to tell” whether fares will rise after the committed freeze date, June 30, according to NJ Spotlight.

Tax amnesty program to NJ taxpayers ends Jan. 15

The New Jersey Division of Taxation is offering a limited-time opportunity for both individual taxpayers and corporations to file past tax returns and/or pay back taxes with no penalties and reduced interest, according to an announcement from John J. Ficara, director, Division of Taxation, N.J. Department of the Treasury.

The New Jersey Tax Amnesty program runs through Jan. 15, offering an opportunity for delinquent taxpayers to come into compliance and get a fresh start. Amnesty applies to individuals or businesses with outstanding tax filings or payments that are reportable on a tax return due on or after Feb. 1, 2009, and prior to Sept. 1, 2017.

Since Tax Amnesty is offered only until Jan. 15, taxpayers with an outstanding New Jersey tax liability are encouraged to take advantage of the program before the deadline so they don’t incur greater penalties.

For information regarding Tax Amnesty eligibility or process, call 1 (800) 781-8407 Monday through Thursday from 8 a.m. until 6 p.m. and Friday from 8 a.m. until 5 p.m. or visit www.TaxAmnesty.nj.gov.

Bayonne COVID-19 cases drop below 400, recoveries top 700

As New Jersey continues Phase 2 of reopening amid the COVID-19 pandemic, Gov. Phil Murphy has consistently said the data drives his decisions to move forward with reopening. In Bayonne, COVID-19 data continues to trend in a positive direction.

According to the Bayonne Office of Emergency Management, no residents have died from COVID-19 as of June 28.

In total, 74 residents have died from COVID-19 in the city.

OEM said that 368 residents have tested positive for COVID-19, and 751 residents have recovered and been cleared of the virus per CDC protocol.

Cases continue to decline in the city as more residents recover. On June 25, COVID-19 cases dropped below 400 in the city.

Bayonne Medical Center (BMC) reported no patients or individuals under investigation for the virus. This means all residents with COVID-19 are recovering at home.

COVID-19 case numbers in Bayonne have been trending downward throughout June. On June 10, the city had more residents who have recovered from COVID-19 than who are still sick with the virus.

According to OEM, the number of positive residents continues to decline, even as testing opportunities have increased.

Testing widely available

While some options have changed, COVID-19 testing is still widely available to Bayonne residents.

BMC’s drive-thru testing at Veterans Stadium has ceased, OEM announced.

“Anyone getting an appointment for a test by a Bayonne physician by the Bayonne Medical Center, will be tested on their property,” according to OEM.

Meanwhile, the the RiteAid at 54th Street and Broadway offers free testing for all residents over 18 via drive-thru.

Visit riteaid.com to register. Residents do not need to be symptomatic, nor do they need a prescription.

CityMD and BMC are conducting antibody testing as well. OEM has advised residents to dial 2-1-1 for a list of testing sites throughout the state.

Senior testing

The ongoing testing at senior congregate housing is offered to asymptomatic and symptomatic residents by BMC.

Residents in all senior buildings will be tested for for free, starting at 50th Street. The testing will then move to 2nd Street, followed by 21st Street, and 135 and 137 Avenue A.

The senior center at 74 Lexington Ave. and the YMCA will also offer testing. Though the buildings aren’t city housing, they are still senior residences with a high risk of spreading COVID-19, according to Bayonne City Council President Sharon Ashe-Nadrowski.

The testing will occur one building at a time, with 40 people per session. Residents preregister and are given masks afterward if they don’t have one. Ashe-Nadrowski said that the appointments are no-contact.

The free testing was set up through the Executive Director of the Bayonne Housing Authority John Mahon and the Chief Medical Officer of CarePoint Medical Group and CEO of BMC  Dr. Vijay Singh.

While senior testing is ongoing, New Jersey is well into the second phase of reopening. Bayonne appears to be in a good position to continue to reopen.

For updates on this and other stories, check www.hudsonreporter.com and follow us on Twitter @hudson_reporter. Daniel Israel can be reached at disrael@hudsonreporter.com.

City officials dispute police union claims about crime

Claiming the Police Officers Benevolent Association (PBA) union is misleading its membership and the public, city officials say crime has declined during the summer months under the current interim public safety director, compared to last year and years before that.
City officials were responding to PBA leadership’s categorization of Public Safety Director James Shea as “an absent” director. The back-and-forth came up during an ongoing labor dispute between the police union and the city over a proposed new contract.
But the charge against Shea may also be the result of his decision, along with Mayor Steven Fulop’s, to suspend four officers without pay last June after a high-speed chase led to a fiery wreck and the beating of an innocent bystander.
The city eventually reversed itself to suspend the officers with pay, as required under their police contract.
The union is also concerned about the fact that the city has yet to name a new chief and has been operating under an acting chief for more than two years.
City officials claim the protest is more about the city’s restricting of compensation days and sick time for police officers.
City spokeswoman Jennifer Morrill disputed union claims that crime stats are up. The Fulop administration continues to reduce crime with shootings and homicides down, she said, and noted that the administration has successfully negotiated new contracts with other city unions.
Responding to the claims by PBA President Carmine Disbrow that the department is flailing without a chief at the helm, Mayor Fulop said in a statement issued on Sept. 26 that data from the department shows crime is actually down during the period without a chief versus the same period in prior years.

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“Director Shea and the police leadership and the men and women of the department have been continuing to reduce crime . ” – Mayor Steven Fulop

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City cites JCPD’s own data

During the past four months when Director Shea has been overseeing the day-to-day operations of the department during the search for a new police chief, he said, there has been a noticeable decrease in shootings and homicides citywide.
During the summer of 2017, the city saw fewer homicides, and a total of 30 shooting incidents, Morrill said, while in 2016 there were nine homicides and 53 shootings, with generally higher numbers in the years before that.
“The fact is that crime is actually down during this time period,” said Mayor Fulop. “Director Shea and the police leadership and the men and women of the department have been continuing to reduce crime and the results speak to that success. We will continue to be thorough and diligent in our search for a new police chief, while working with the police department and the residents to continue to improve public safety.”
Disbrow has claimed that negotiations stalled after the administration took action against officers in June who were involved in a police pursuit being investigated by the Hudson County Prosecutor’s Office. Those claims are false, Fulop said. Since the pursuit and crash, there have multiple days – some of them 16 hours long – of negotiations and arbitration between the city and the union and an independent arbitrator.
Since the last council meeting, the administration’s attorney has been in touch with the union attorneys twice and has made the last offer to them. They refused to respond, Fulop said. As recently as last week, the union’s attorney put in writing they would only entertain an offer that does not allow officers to utilize comp days at any time, despite any impact on public safety or overtime expenses.
“While the union may want to misrepresent the truth to play politics, the administration has an obligation to set the record straight on public safety and let residents know that we have been beyond diligent in protecting our neighborhoods,” said Fulop.

Al Sullivan may be reached at asullivan@hudsonreporter.com.

Heads roll at the BBOED

In a meeting on January 25, the Bayonne Board of Education laid off 16 district employees and demoted six others amid a $2 million budget deficit facing the district. It also appointed Michael A. Wanko, PhD, as Interim Superintendent, effective July 1, to take over when Dr. Patricia McGeehan’s contract expires.
“Due to reasons of economy,” read Board Secretary Gary Maita before citing each name and position that would be either cut or transferred. Before he cast his vote to fire 14 secretaries and a teacher’s aide, Board President Joseph Broderick called the evening, “one of the toughest nights I’ve ever had being on this board.”
Trustees were visibly upset over their tough decisions. After all, they did not invite the budget shortfall. “All these people that we’re talking about in my estimate are doing a terrific job, which makes it that much more difficult to cut these positions,” said Broderick, adding that all decisions made during the meeting are of “a strictly financial matter.”
“These positions were added at a time, from what I understand, the board wasn’t aware of the financial situation we were in. Now we’re in a spot where we’re trying to reverse those decisions.”
After the board voted on each individual “transfer,” or demotion, Alan D’Angelo, President of the Bayonne Teachers Association, asked Business Administrator Leo Smith to follow up with a cost savings figure.
Laura Craig was transferred from her position of Director of Special Programs to Coordinator of Academy of Fine Arts and Academics, saving the district $71,461 annually.
Alaina Desjardin was transferred from her position of Director of Planning, Research, Evaluation, Assessment and Accountability to Data Analysis Coordinator, saving the district $68,311.
Lyndia Hayes was transferred from her position as Assistant Principal to Special Education Teacher at Horace Mann Community School, saving the district $27,002 annually.
Christopher Romano was transferred from his position as Assistant Principal to Social Studies Teacher at Midtown Community School, saving the district $61,914 annually.
Melissa Sisk was transferred from her position as Assistant Supervisor of Technology to Technology Facilitator, saving the district $23,275 annually.
Heather Zalis was transferred from her position as Assistant Principal to 5th Grade Teacher at Nicholas Oresko Community School, saving the district $63,014 annually.

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“With all due respect, if we had known about the financial difficulties, I would have hired him sooner. The payback is tremendous. I think we’re making a terrible mistake.” – Trustee Theodore Garelick
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Interim superintendent, extraordinaire

The board voted unanimously to approve former Bayonne High School principal, Dr. Michael A. Wanko,as interim superintendent, choosing from a list of 12 candidates. Aside from serving as principal from 1981 through 2002, he was an interim superintendent at Manchester Regional School District in Passaic County from 2014-2016 and as interim principal of Manchester Regional High School. After serving as principal at BHS, he became a principal at Piscataway High School. In addition to his years of experience in public education, he has had his own education consulting firm since 1981.
His appointment is pending final approval from interim executive county superintendent Monica Tone. His contract, which is not yet hammered out, is for a one-year period, but the board has the power to extend it another year.

Risk vs. risk

Apart from the 14 classroom aides and one librarian aide, the board laid off the district’s risk manager, Chris Patella, in order to clear his $85,000 salary. There was much discussion about his value to the district, with some on the board arguing that he saves the district much more money than he makes by informing important financial decisions.
The irony of a board of trustees weighing the risk of firing the risk manager was overlooked in the somber mood of the evening. “Seeing the finances that I’ve seen, we are really in a dire straight,” said Broderick at the workshop meeting prior to the regular meeting where trustees discussed the employment status of Patella before voting to lay him off at the regular meeting.
Trustee Theodore Garelick defended Patella’s hire in December of 2015. “I have been trying for years to get a risk manager in this district because I know the direct correlation of someone who is tasked with what will drive up cost as opposed to driving down cost,” said Garelick citing his experience in private business. “With all due respect, if we had known about the financial difficulties, I would have hired him sooner. The payback is tremendous. I think we’re making a terrible mistake.”
“Other districts in this county that are more well-funded than us do not have this position,” said Trustee Christopher Munoz, calling Patella’s position a “luxury this board cannot afford,” and said his role should be absorbed by the business administrator.
It seemed that no layoff or demotion was easy for the board. When it came to Patella, Broderick said, “We’re considering things that would have the least impact on students themselves.”

Rory Pasquariello may be reached at roryp@hudsonreporter.com.

Enlivening Ourselves

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Dear Dr. Norquist:
I am having trouble with my relationship with my sister, and I’m hoping you can give some advice about it. I have two brothers and two sisters but one of them, my youngest, I’ve always felt somewhat responsible for. I took care of her while my mom was working when I was only 10. I guess the care-taking role stuck. Now I’m 40 and she’s 34 and I still worry too much about her well-being.
She doesn’t have good judgment. She hangs out with the wrong people and she can’t seem to support herself financially. I worry also about her safety. Sometimes it keeps me up at night. I also spend a lot of time feeling angry at her for decisions she makes (or doesn’t make). All this worrying and anger doesn’t seem to help the situation at all and it is definitely having a bad effect on me. I have trouble relaxing. My sleep is affected and I’m often tense and worried. My husband is sick and tired of me obsessing about my sister’s well-being. I wonder if you have any advice for me?

Dr. Norquist responds:
There is a concept called “over care” that probably applies to your situation. It is the result of being overly attached to or overly identified with someone or something. Overcare always leads to anxiety and fatigue. It also distracts us from and leaves us less capable of responding to our own lives. Often, when we overcare, we are trying to control something or someone in an attempt to feel safe and secure. My hunch is that you’d like your sister to have good judgement and show that she can take good care of herself so that you can relax, and feel secure, knowing she is safe. You are overly invested and it is wearing you down. Your response to your sister’s behavior makes a lot of sense, given your history of having been her care-taker when you were a child yourself. You, however, will never have control over her decisions and actions; so this is a no-win situation. It’s time now to focus on taking care of yourself.
There is a technique called HeartMath, founded by Doc Childre, that you can use when you are feeling consumed with anxiety or anger regarding your sister (or anything else, for that matter). It consists of simple but effective tools for refocusing your emotions. Research confirms that the heart sends neural messages to the parts of the brain that govern emotion and higher reasoning capacities. The HeartMath technique consists of tools to bring your heart rhythms into a coherent, harmonious waveform. This pulls your brainwaves into synchronization with your heart, which leads to greater mental clarity along with feelings of security and well being. Worry, anger, frustration and anxiety evoke irregular and chaotic heart rhythmic patterns that can be transformed using simple HeartMath tools.
A simple HeartMath tool that can be extremely effective is the “Power of Neutral.” To use this tool, start by noticing your feelings. This is not as straightforward as it might appear. Often underlying feelings are expressed as muscular tension, an acidic stomach, or rapid heartbeat, while we are not even cognizant of what we are feeling. Taking time out to notice and name whatever the underlying feeling is helps to regulate the emotional energy that is running through your body. Noticing your physiological cues will alert you to the necessity for stepping back and naming the feeling that is churning through your system. Once you name the feeling, focus your attention on the center of your chest, near your heart. Now, breathe slowly and deeply, imagining the air entering and leaving through the center of your chest. Try to disengage from the stressful thoughts and feelings, as you continue to breathe in a relaxing casual manner through your heart. Continue this process for several minutes, until you feel a shift, signifying that you have neutralized the emotional charge. Holding the attitude and the intent of neutral while engaging in this exercise will help you to dissipate the negative emotion. For more information on this technique, see The HeartMath Solution, by Childre and Martin (2000). Please give it a try and let me know if this is helpful to you. It can be a wonderful technique for disengaging from your “overcare” with your sister, and recharging and revitalizing your life.

(Dr. Sallie Norquist is a licensed psychologist (NJ #2371) in private practice and is director of Chaitanya Counseling Services, a center for upliftment and enlivenment, in Hoboken.) Dr. Norquist and the staff of Chaitanya invite you to write them at Chaitanya Counseling Services, 51 Newark St., Suite 202, Hoboken, NJ 07030 or www.chaitanyacounseling.com or by e-mail at drnorquist@chaitanyacounseling.com. Questions can address various topics, including relationships, life’s stresses, difficulties, mysteries and dilemmas, as well as questions related to managing stress or alternative ways of understanding health-related concerns. 2017 Chaitanya Counseling Services

Mayor Bhalla’s City Council Voting Block Chose Cannabis Over Kids

Dear Editor:

The City Council has let the Hoboken residents know in a 5-4 vote that having a cannabis dispensary approximately 200 feet from two schools is no big deal. The decision was made before anyone entered the Council Chambers despite compelling public comments and concerns. The City Council never addressed ANY of the resident’s legitimate concerns which centered around child/school safety and community benefits, instead the Council gave nonsensical statements that they believed gave them cover for approving Blue Violets Dispensary.

The Majority Council Position

1. “The World is not ending this evening. Tomorrow, we’ll wake up and find that the sun still rises in the east, our families still love us and we still have to go to work.”

Joe Quintero started off his justification for opening up a dispensary across the street from the school with this soliloquy. This was the beginning of what would be a lecture from the majority council with every message delivered in a condescending manner that the City Council knows better than its residents.

2. The Planning Board’s feelings are hurt

This was the sentiment of several Council members. Most people would agree that Planning Board members are volunteers and it isn’t an easy job, but members of City Council felt the need to defend them because of some dubious decisions made regarding the Blue Violets hearing. During the Planning Board meeting, an objection was made regarding the legality of the “Time of Application” statute, the Planning Board and its attorney could not render an opinion. In fact, the meeting went into back-and-forth discussion which made clear to the public that they had no idea what to do. When members of the Planning Board asked for legal guidance the Planning Board attorney said something to affect, “when there’s ambiguity in the law, we lean to the side of the applicant.” This upset residents.

3. “It may be that it’s as bad as we feared, or may turn out not as bad as we feared.”

Phil Cohen wanted to make the “let’s see how it goes” argument. Residents made in public comments that it defies common sense that the city would experiment with a dispensary so close in proximity to the schools even if there were a remote possibility of putting the council’s most vulnerable constituents, children, and their school communities at risk. Evidently, Phil doesn’t believe in common sense arguments and is willing to roll the dice.

4. There is a Vape Shop across the street!!!

First, “two wrongs don’t make a right” but thank you Emily Jabbour for pointing this out. All Saints has been complaining about the Vape Shop since it opened. It was the city’s zoning laws that allowed that business to go in, in the first place. Could you please get rid of that store and all of the improper alcohol advertising on that corner? You have the power to do it!

5. The word “fear-mongering” is in the public ethos and members of the City Council are using it.

“Fear-mongering” along with “stigmatizer” are labels used as a cudgel to shame residents from voicing their legitimate concerns. Residents have been repeatedly stating that this issue has nothing to do with cannabis dispensaries in Hoboken. In fact, most residents are in favor of cannabis dispensaries opening in Hoboken. In the case of Blue Violets, it has always been about its location and proximity to the schools.

6. It seems it’s harder to get a deck approved on the back of your house than it is to open a cannabis dispensary.

A point was made that during zoning/planning board meetings, residents have been in tears when their projects were rejected by either of the land use boards. Blue Violet’s application soared through the process without having to present a traffic or architecture study to the public or board.

7. City Council continues to conflate recreational and medicinal cannabis usage.

Several members of the City Council used the need for medicinal cannabis for cancer, anxiety, postpartum-related issues, as arguments for approving Blue Violets. Nobody disagrees that cannabis has a valuable medicinal purpose. Reminder, we are talking about a recreational dispensary. A maximum of six dispensaries will be opening in Hoboken’s mile square. That means a cannabis purchaser will only need to walk a few blocks away to a dispensary. Residents argue that asking a cannabis purchaser to walk 600 feet away from the schools to get to a dispensary is not an undue burden whether for medicinal or recreational purposes.

8. I am a social worker so I know better.

Emily Jabbour found herself in an awkward position. She is the face of Moms Demand Action and Vision Zero, and this vote seemed to be in conflict with a mother who advocates for child safety. She decided her approach was to divorce her “mom” role in the decision. Instead, she decided to be a social worker for this meeting and as such is more qualified to decide on whether Blue Violet should be on the corner of 7th and Washington dismissing research presented by residents. She throws out the “family and kids first” position and takes on the “cannabis purchaser first” position. Not sure how she reconciles that but she does need to sleep at night.

9. Those who need cannabis feel bullied.

Wow! This is another cudgel. Reminder, those who oppose Blue Violets, oppose its location only. Nobody cares if you use cannabis! Members of the City Council are using words like “fear-mongering” and “stigmatization” in the public forums in order to create an inaccurate image of residents who oppose Blue Violets. If the statement is accurate, that residents of the community feel cannabis bullied, then maybe they should look to the City Council which is perpetuating that narrative.

10. We respect everyone’s opinion.

Many of the Council members would start their statements with “I respect everyone’s opinion” which led the public to wait for the “but….we know better than you.” speech. When you have to say, “I respect everyone’s opinion” over and over, you know it’s a phrase they want to hide behind but is completely disingenuous. The public is not stupid and sees right through these condescending statements.

One might wonder why the City Council would take such a position when the optics are poor and potential litigation has arisen. Look no further than Story Dispensary, applying in a C3 zone, also against our Common Sense Cannabis ordinance. If the Council rejected Blue Violets on any basis, it would open the precedent of rejecting any cannabis dispensaries in violation of the common sense ordinance. There is too much political favor and money to gain with Story’s potential approval (future Gubernatorial candidate Steve Fulop’s wife and his SuperPAC director are the defacto owners of said property). This City Council majority wants to ensure Story Dispensary sails through and doesn’t want to have any conflict with that vote. So…City Council decided to risk the health, safety, and well-being of the children in this community for political favor and money. Let that sink in.

It’s all about Story.

Elizabeth Urtecho

Enlivening Ourselves

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Dear Dr. Norquist:
I am having trouble with my relationship with my sister, and I’m hoping you can give some advice about it. I have two brothers and two sisters but one of them, my youngest, I’ve always felt somewhat responsible for. I took care of her while my mom was working when I was only 10. I guess the care-taking role stuck. Now I’m 40 and she’s 34 and I still worry too much about her well-being.
She doesn’t have good judgment. She hangs out with the wrong people and she can’t seem to support herself financially. I worry also about her safety. Sometimes it keeps me up at night. I also spend a lot of time feeling angry at her for decisions she makes (or doesn’t make). All this worrying and anger doesn’t seem to help the situation at all and it is definitely having a bad effect on me. I have trouble relaxing. My sleep is affected and I’m often tense and worried. My husband is sick and tired of me obsessing about my sister’s well-being. I wonder if you have any advice for me?

Dr. Norquist responds:
There is a concept called “over care” that probably applies to your situation. It is the result of being overly attached to or overly identified with someone or something. Overcare always leads to anxiety and fatigue. It also distracts us from and leaves us less capable of responding to our own lives. Often, when we overcare, we are trying to control something or someone in an attempt to feel safe and secure. My hunch is that you’d like your sister to have good judgement and show that she can take good care of herself so that you can relax, and feel secure, knowing she is safe. You are overly invested and it is wearing you down. Your response to your sister’s behavior makes a lot of sense, given your history of having been her care-taker when you were a child yourself. You, however, will never have control over her decisions and actions; so this is a no-win situation. It’s time now to focus on taking care of yourself.
There is a technique called HeartMath, founded by Doc Childre, that you can use when you are feeling consumed with anxiety or anger regarding your sister (or anything else, for that matter). It consists of simple but effective tools for refocusing your emotions. Research confirms that the heart sends neural messages to the parts of the brain that govern emotion and higher reasoning capacities. The HeartMath technique consists of tools to bring your heart rhythms into a coherent, harmonious waveform. This pulls your brainwaves into synchronization with your heart, which leads to greater mental clarity along with feelings of security and well being. Worry, anger, frustration and anxiety evoke irregular and chaotic heart rhythmic patterns that can be transformed using simple HeartMath tools.
A simple HeartMath tool that can be extremely effective is the “Power of Neutral.” To use this tool, start by noticing your feelings. This is not as straightforward as it might appear. Often underlying feelings are expressed as muscular tension, an acidic stomach, or rapid heartbeat, while we are not even cognizant of what we are feeling. Taking time out to notice and name whatever the underlying feeling is helps to regulate the emotional energy that is running through your body. Noticing your physiological cues will alert you to the necessity for stepping back and naming the feeling that is churning through your system. Once you name the feeling, focus your attention on the center of your chest, near your heart. Now, breathe slowly and deeply, imagining the air entering and leaving through the center of your chest. Try to disengage from the stressful thoughts and feelings, as you continue to breathe in a relaxing casual manner through your heart. Continue this process for several minutes, until you feel a shift, signifying that you have neutralized the emotional charge. Holding the attitude and the intent of neutral while engaging in this exercise will help you to dissipate the negative emotion. For more information on this technique, see The HeartMath Solution, by Childre and Martin (2000). Please give it a try and let me know if this is helpful to you. It can be a wonderful technique for disengaging from your “overcare” with your sister, and recharging and revitalizing your life.

(Dr. Sallie Norquist is a licensed psychologist (NJ #2371) in private practice and is director of Chaitanya Counseling Services, a center for upliftment and enlivenment, in Hoboken.) Dr. Norquist and the staff of Chaitanya invite you to write them at Chaitanya Counseling Services, 51 Newark St., Suite 202, Hoboken, NJ 07030 or www.chaitanyacounseling.com or by e-mail at drnorquist@chaitanyacounseling.com. Questions can address various topics, including relationships, life’s stresses, difficulties, mysteries and dilemmas, as well as questions related to managing stress or alternative ways of understanding health-related concerns. 2017 Chaitanya Counseling Services

Fulop introduces running mates

Mayor Steven Fulop announced a partial ticket of City Council running mates last week, officially kicking off what many predict could be the most wide-open municipal election since the early 1990s. The race for mayor and all nine council seats takes place in November.
Fulop, William Matsikoudis, and Charles Mainor have announced their intention to run for mayor, and Fulop’s is the first official slate to be announced.
His announcement raises as many questions as it answers.
No candidates were announced for those parts of the city where he is expected to have the most trouble winning, such as Wards A, B, C, D and F, where either opposition candidates hold seats or there will be expected vacancies.
This is the first time the mayor has revealed his plans since October, when he dropped his bid to seek the Democratic nomination for governor and said would seek reelection instead.
The mayoralty and all nine council seats are up for reelection. A successful ballot referendum last November moved the elections from May to November, stretching out the election season. But the change will also create significant polling place and ballot problems, because the state, federal, school, and local elections will all take place on the same day.
While federal and state nominations will actually be settled in the June primaries, and school candidates will file in July, the deadline for filing for municipal elections is Sept. 5, leaving only 45 days for election officials to sort through petitions and settle ballot positions. Many predict this election will see a significantly larger number of candidates than in the past few cycles.

‘Team Fulop’

Called “Team Fulop,” the partial ticket includes current incumbent at-large council members Joyce Watterman and Daniel Rivera and Council President Rolando Lavarro.
The only other candidate Fulop included was Ward E Council Member Candice Osborne. She represents what is considered Fulop’s strongest ward, since prior to becoming mayor he served there as councilman.
But one of the announced opposition candidates, Nicholas J. Grillo, could siphon votes from that ward, posing a problem for Fulop. Part of the mayor’s strategy will likely be to hope for massive turnout in Ward E to compensate for weaker turnouts elsewhere. Grillo running in Ward E is something of a surprise, since he was originally touted as a possible at-large candidate on a ticket to be headed by Westside Freeholder Bill O’Dea.
O’Dea, a Fulop ally, had planned to run for mayor if Fulop ran for governor. He has still not discounted running for mayor, which could mean Grillo might wind up on the O’Dea ticket as his Ward E running mate.
Matsikoudis and Mainor have not announced their council slates.
Ward C and D council members Richard Boggiano and Michael Yun have not announced if they will seek reelection as council members or run for mayor too.
Ward A Councilman Frank Gajewski, who ran with Fulop in 2012, may not run for reelection. It is rumored that Fulop intends to tap newly-appointed Board of Education Trustee Amy DeGise – daughter of County Executive Tom Degise – as his candidate there. Also rumored to run against DeGise may be former School Board President Vidya Gangadin, who Fulop once backed as a Board of Education candidate.
Councilwoman Diane Coleman, a key member of the Fulop team elected in 2012 who set the stage for the Fulop sweep in 2013, has recently been elected as county register. Her vacant seat has yet to be filled by the city council. But it is expected that her replacement will also likely be Fulop’s candidate for Ward F.
Ward F, heavily low income and predominantly African-American, is expected to draw a lot of candidates and will likely prove difficult for Fulop to retain control over.
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“I am proud to announce part of our 2017 slate and I am excited to have these incredibly qualified council members represent our team in November’s municipal election.” – Steve Fulop.
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The victory of Chris Gadsden in a Ward B special election last November showed significant weakness there for Fulop, who had backed incumbent John Hallanan there. Fulop handpicked Hallanan earlier last year to fill the vacated seat. Hallanan’s loss was considered an upset, and Hallanan has said he would not be seeking the seat again.

A solid team

Fulop, however, touted the quality of the announced candidates.
“I am proud to announce part of our 2017 slate and I am excited to have these incredibly qualified council members represent our team in November’s municipal election,” said Fulop. “As members of the council, they have shown a tireless dedication to serving Jersey City residents, each and every day. As a team, they have certainly proven their effectiveness, as reflected by a long list of accomplishments, including stable taxes and overall government responsiveness. Together, we will continue to push Jersey City forward.”
Originally elected in 2011 during a special election, Lavarro is seeking a second four-year term as an at-large council candidate.
Fulop and Lavarro are running on a string of successful legislation passed over the last three years which include enacting the state’s first mandatory paid sick leave law in 2013, and working to raise the minimum wage for city employees.
“I am proud of what we’ve accomplished during the past three and a half years – passing legislation to support working families, protecting our diverse community, balancing development and community benefits, all while not increasing taxes,” said Lavarro. “There is much more for us to do if we are going to keep our city affordable, while continuing to encourage growth.”
Rivera, who has served since his election in 2013, is seeking a second term in office. He was once rumored as a possible mayoral candidate if Fulop ran for governor. He has become the administration’s advocate for expanding and diversifying the city’s police force. Earlier this year, the city announced the hiring of a new class of police recruits, who will bring the total number of police officers to 922, the largest the force has been in more than two decades.
“The ‘Team Fulop’ candidates have made clear their continued responsibility to the people of Jersey City, and I am honored to be a part of this team as we look towards November’s election,” said Rivera. “From expanding our police department to building new parks, we have worked together to make the kinds of changes necessary in building a stronger Jersey City.”
Watterman, who was also elected with Fulop in 2013, is seen as a strong advocate for strengthening the city’s affordable housing policies. During the past three and a half years, more affordable housing has been built throughout the city than had been built in the combined eight years prior. Jersey City now leads the state in the number of new affordable housing units.
“I started this journey with a team that believes in a better Jersey City. We stimulate hope with our focus on crucial quality of life issues, such as affordable housing and social services,” said Watterman. “It has been an honor to serve, and I know there is still much more we can accomplish together if elected to a second term.”
Osborne, who was also first elected in 2013, has been an advocate for quality of life issues, in particular in the downtown and waterfront area.
“Whether improving pedestrian safety, fighting for weekend ferry service, getting black box theaters for arts groups, creating the Newark Avenue Pedestrian Plaza, or saving Peninsula Park with private dollars, serving the residents of Jersey City has been a rewarding experience,” said Candice Osborne. “But there is so much more to do and I hope voters will give me the opportunity to do even more.”
The remaining 2017 ‘Team Fulop’ slate is expected to be finalized during the next few months.
Al Sullivan may be reached at asullivan@hudsonreporter.com.

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